"Oh, it happens," Nita countered.

"I just know it's also dumb, to let someone's appearance alone color how you think of them."

Let alone be the only go/no-go sign for attraction.

"Besides, what if we - hypothetical we, don't get cute with me - were meeting for some other reason, that didn't have to do with appearance? I'd be thinking more about weighing something else altogether as a base for my opinion."